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ISBN: 0-7570-0037-1
Length: 176 Pages
Size: 6 X
9-inch
Format: Trade Paperback
Category: Relationships / Love & Romance
Price: $12.95
Availability:
In Print
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Synopsis • Contents
Introduction • Reviews
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Synopsis
Maybe that very special someone is not as far
out of reach as you think. Maybe what you need are a few effective
strategies to finally make the right moves. Even if you’re very
shy, a little on the quiet side, or simply not the social success
you’d like to be, Love Tactics may have the answers
you’ve been looking for.
It’s all here--how to build self-confidence,
exhibit positive character traits, gain trust, and keep that special
someone interested and hoping for a true commitment. Love
Tactics will tell you all you need to know--from taking
that first step and summoning up the courage to ask for a date,
to sitting back and enjoying being with the one you want after you’ve
won their heart!
Written in a warm, easy-going style, this book
offers a wealth of practical advice on how to get the one you love
to love you back. So don’t just stand there--get out and stir up
some hearts!
Thomas
McKnight is a relationship expert. His columns on meeting
the right person have appeared in leading U.S. singles newspapers
and magazines over the past fifteen years. He has conducted dozens
of relationship workshops throughout the country, and has also appeared
on numerous radio and television shows, including Oprah.
Robert
H. Phillips , Ph.D., is a practicing psychologist on Long
Island, New York. He is the founder and director of the Center for
Coping, a multi-service organization offering private and group
counsel-ing to help individuals cope with a variety of situations.
The author of twenty-five books on how to deal with various chronic
health conditions, Dr. Phillips has also written numerous articles
on a variety of subjects in the field of psychology. He has lectured
at conventions, universities, and professional meetings throughout
the country, and has ap-peared on local and national radio and television
programs. Currently he is the host of a weekly radio show in Long
Island, New York.
Contents
Preface
Part
One: Winning the One You Want
1. General
Strategy
2. Acting With Self-Assurance
3. Taking the Offensive
4. Making Time an Ally
5. Pacifying Their Fears and Gaining Their Trust
6. Being Irresistibly Likable
7. Exhibiting Self-Mastery and Leadership Ability
8.Cultivating Their Emotional Dependence
9. Shaking Their Confidence
10. Keeping Them Interested and Hoping
11. Confronting Diplomatically
12. Demonstrating Commitment
13. Removing Final Barriers
Part
Two: Winning Back the One You’ve Lost
14. Learning How to Win Back a Lost Love
15. Showing a Willingness to Change
16. Evaluating Communication Skills
17. Using Attention Wisely
18. Being a Successful Competitor
Final
Words
About the Authors
Index
Introduction
The reason is very clear why Love Tactics has become a perennial bestseller over the last two decades. Why? The answer is painfully obvious to anyone who has ever felt the agonizing frustration of not having their love reciprocated!
Isn’t it ironic that in spite of the many technological advances made within the last century, people today are still as frustrated as ever in their quest for true love? Our society is full of individuals who have disappointedly abandoned their idealistic dreams of romantic fulfillment. It almost seems a law of nature that the one you want never wants you back, while the ones who are interested in you are simply incapable of stirring your emotions! Love forever looms on the horizon, but is just out of reach.
Many have given up, deciding that nothing can be done to alter an apparently loveless destiny. They have resigned themselves to going through life, taunted by the prospects of love, but never truly possessing it. You may have experienced such feelings of helplessness yourself! If so, then this book is the answer to your prayers.
Love Tactics demonstrates why there is a very real reason not to give up hope. Love is not the mere result of chance meetings determined by pure luck. Believe it or not, love is a predictable human response! It results whenever a person’s key psychological needs are satisfied. It’s true that, on occasion, love does seem to occur accidentally. But even in these cases, such relationships still conform to the principles of romantic behavior outlined in this book. Anyone who chooses to consciously apply these rules of love in an intelligent manner need not go through life unloved. Succeeding in romance, then, only requires becoming aware of your ability to modify and influence the emotional moods, attitudes, and behaviors of others through well-proven psychological techniques. We’re not talking about taking unfair advantages--just using strategic common sense!
As you can probably imagine, it would be impossible to include all the different strategies, techniques, and tips that can possibly be used in winning the one you want. Rather, Love Tactics provides the basic formula from which you will be able to derive your own solution to your particular circumstances. As you read the book, you’ll find yourself becoming more enthusiastic, confident, and eager to approach others in your goal to win the person of your dreams.
Divided into two main sections, Love Tactics presents dozens of techniques that are designed to help you in the most exciting search-and-succeed activities of your life. These strategies, which are found in Part One, will help you win the love of that special someone. Part Two goes a step further by helping those who feel they have already found their love, but have lost or are in danger of losing that person. How to win back another person’s love is the theme of this section.
Not all of the strategies found in Love Tactics are suitable for every situation. Different approaches work better than others, depending on the particular need of the moment. Experience will help you see which particular tactics are best suited for different conditions. Nonetheless, you’ll also learn that certain fundamental principles of psychology always apply, and are the basis for your selection of tactics.
You must nurture friendship, respect, and passion in order to win the heart of the one you want. This fundamental understanding is the bedrock foundation of the Love Tactics strategy, and the way to ultimately win. Trust that if you cultivate the relationship properly, you will ultimately reap a magnificent harvest!
Of the many lessons you’ll learn in Love Tactics, however, remember this important truth above all else: The way to true love is not to sit back and wait for the person of your dreams to magically appear. Rather, it involves choosing the one you want above all others, and then winning them over using known principles of human romantic behavior.
Yes, you can win the one you want! You can also win back the one you’ve lost! You don’t have to settle for anything (or anyone) less! The dream is in sight! It’s merely a matter of psychology. Love Tactics will acquaint you with the science of human behavior as it relates to love and romance, and teach you how to win the one you want!
Reviews
"This book is almost unbelievable in how it shows
you how to create true love between you and another person. Very
highly recommended."
--www.StarWorldNews.com
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