Ultimate Betrayal Recognizing, Uncovering and Dealing With Infidelity Danine Manette

ISBN: 0-7570-0281-1 Length: 112 Pages Size: 6 x 9-inch Format: Quality Paperback Category: Relationships / Self-Help Price: $12.95 US / $19.50 CAN Availability: In Print   Contents Reviews

The phone rings, and when you answer it, the person on the other end quickly hangs up. Again. Your mate is working late. Again. And even when the two of you are together, he seems distant, distracted. Is it your imagination, or is he seeing someone else?

Written by an experienced investigator who has dealt with infidelity in her own life, Ultimate Betrayal is the complete guide to recognizing, uncovering, and dealing with a cheating boyfriend or mate. The author begins by making you aware of the many signs of infidelity. You'll learn how to evaluate your mate's history, as well as your own; how to note any changes in his routine; and how to increase your awareness of his behavior. The author then provides detailed guidelines for gathering evidence of your mate's extracurricular activities--without his being aware of your investigation. From phone bills to ATM receipts, from computer records to hair on the head rest, all the evidence is there. And you'll learn proven techniques for finding and recording it. Following thi s, the author helps you reassess your personal goals, confront your mate with the evidence you have gathered, evaluate your partner's reaction, and finally, choose your next step, whether separation or reconciliation. She even includes a handy resource list that offers tools for gathering evidence, as well as support groups that can give you much-needed emotional assistance.

Nothing is more heart-wrenching than the suspicion that your partner has betrayed you. If you have decided that it's time to uncover the truth, Ultimate Betrayal will help you with practical advice, invaluable insight, and the encouragement you need to take charge of your life.

Danine Manette received a bachelor's degree in Social Welfare from the University of California at Berkeley, and went on to earn her doctorate from Hastings College of Law in San Francisco, California. She has been a therapist and a juvenile probation officer, and currently works in the specialized field of criminal investigations. A married mother of three, Manette now lives in California.

Contents

Acknowledgments

Who Should Read This Book?

Introduction

1. Recognizing the Signs
2. Gathering the Evidence
3. Confrontation
4. What Now?
5. Self-Reflection

Conclusion

Resources

Index

Reviews

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